I haven't seen my ex for nearly 2 years. We are going through the family courts and he hasn't seen our son since he was 3 months old. He's been stopped by the court from seeing him until he completes a domestic abuse perpetrator programme. I have a non molestation order against him. In the last month, he has taken a video from my social media and reported it to social services of me and my son near a fireworks display saying it was unsafe (social services said it looked absolutely fine and the guy even said "I hope you had a lovely time. This is obviously a malicious report"). My social media is pretty locked down and he's not on there so he's obviously had someone spying on me. I've deleted all social media now as I'm so paranoid. The courts are also helping me to change my sons surname to double barrel it which I am so happy about. In his birthday card this year that he wrote to my son (he's allowed) he wrote my son's name and his currebt surname in capital letters. He never does this and it's clearly him making a point. Will this ever end? I feel like I'm constantly waiting for the next thing.