Recently had a first date w someone who is perfect on paper! I like him, he's kind, respectful, attractive .... We did laugh but it I felt like there wasn't necessarily an instant click personality-wise.
I can be quite extroverted and "high energy", he seems calmer and more placid. All good things! We have been in contact over text / had some banter but it never really kicks off - he gives a cursory "haha" and responds but it doesn't seem as easy and free as it has with others I've dated in the past.
This is by no means a criticism of him, just a hunch that maybe we aren't too well matched.
Do I give it a go to see if we connect more deeply? Or leave it here? As I say I did like him, I think he is probably more mature than me but it didn't seem to be instant fun really which is what I look for - a spark, in which we really get each other's sense of humour.