Both have professional jobs, his higher paid than mine but that’s the sectors were in. I run my own business and work 4-4.5 days most weeks. I work very hard on my work/life balance and being present with dc when with them. He’s f/t.
Dh has worked at least half of every day he’s had off since lockdown began. Today for example was our only day off for half term. Lovely family morning and lunch (though I caught him doing emails on his phone at lunch in the cafe)., I got an hour to do my thing at home then he worked from 2:30ish till now.
Every single “day off” he’s like this 4-5 hours work gets done before breakfast or “after” whatever family thing we do. .
It’s “his” time, not interfering with me really (dc doing own thing) although I’d prefer his company so AIBU to be annoyed? I’m not even sure why it annoys me so much. I just wish I didn’t feel like we are an unwelcome distraction in his proper (work) life.
Sigh.
Go on, tell me I’m BU. I kind of know I am.