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Aibu to ask where I should meet visitor

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VentventVENT · 20/10/2020 07:34

I have a family member coming from overseas at the weekend. They are travelling from a country not on the quarantine list.
However they are stopping “up North” first (I don’t exactly know where) and then coming down to London to stay in a hotel.

I thought we could meet in a restaurant but now realise that’s not allowed. Nor is them coming to my home (and to be honest I don’t really want them to come here - it’s hassle).

But where on earth should I suggest? It’s going to be tipping down with rain as far as I know.

Does anyone have any ideas?

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VentventVENT · 20/10/2020 08:46

@StealthPolarBear it is super confusing.

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StealthPolarBear · 20/10/2020 08:50

All academic for us after all as ds is isolating as a contact. But good to know!

Florencex · 20/10/2020 09:19

[quote VentventVENT]@StealthPolarBear it is super confusing.[/quote]
What is confusing? Not wanting to debate the rules themselves. But they are set out very clearly. I don’t even understand why you needed to read them ten times.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-54373904

StealthPolarBear · 20/10/2020 09:43

It looks as though I was reading the tier 3 rules
And even the government finds the rules confusing (and thinks Sunderland is over on the West Coast)

CheesyMother · 20/10/2020 10:21

The guidance on the GOV.UK website says that you can’t meet people indoors if you live in a Tier 2 area, so you can’t just go outside the area and meet them indoors (or not without breaking the rules anyway).

VentventVENT · 20/10/2020 11:07

@Florencex literally read what you’ve just sent - no explanation of whether a pub garden counts as an outdoor setting. No advice on whether can travel outside of tier 2 zone to be indoors (am on a border). It is confusing.

Am not debating the rules - am just working out where to meet someone and stay within them.

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