I know this might seem silly but I can't tell if I'm being 'old fashioned' or if people are mansplaining to me. It's not meant to be a goady thread about having money, more getting cold feet about big purchases.
Essentially, I have a job where I use my own car for work and it's part of the contract I have one. When I first got into this work a few years back I and DH went halves on a budget car to get me started. Since then I've been putting money aside each month for a new car. I'd anticipated that for a deposit, but budget car has lasted a lot longer than I expected, plus I got a promotion two years ago and I've been using the extra money to add to the pot. I'm lucky that I've now got 9k in my car fund.
My work miles mean high mileage, and it's variable mileage which I can't control. For that reason leasing is out, and PCP doesn't seem a good fit. PCP deals are aimed at people doing less than 12k a year. Mine is usually 15-20k and while I know some will finance, they charge a premium for doing so - definitely not eligible for the tempting advertised deals. Hire purchase seems pointless if I've got the funds as the deals aren't comparable (they're usually just list price plus interest, and interest for HP is usually 12-14%)
So the way I see it I could buy a budget brand car that's less than three years old. I could then keep putting money aside each month and in 5yrs time buy another car the same way. A bit like what I'd be doing with hire purchase but without the interest.
I've mentioned this to some male members of my family and pretty much been told I'm an idiot. That noone buys cars outright these days, they'll see my coming etc. Either I should get the latest popular brand on PCP or I should buy an old saloon workhorse that's already done 70k for a couple of grand.
I totally get that most people buy cars on finance, and if I buy outright im never going to get a big fancy car, but surely for my individual circs this way makes sense? I don't need a big car, nor can I risk a gas guzzling liability. Im not bothered about newish for the sake of it, just something i can be confident will be reliable and last me a good few years, and is efficient/ cheap to run (particularly important when work mileage isn't generous!)
I was brought up not to use credit so I'm aware that that influences my spending compared to some peers, but i think I'm being logical - please tell me if I'm wrong.