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No Comprehension skills 18 months?

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Landladymews · 16/10/2020 21:11

Hi

I’m feeling quite concerned about my 18 month old who shows limited signs of comprehension when we are talking to him, doesn’t point/wave and probably as a result has no words. He won’t for example stack blocks despite my showing him how (he just likes re arranging them). I ask him if he wants milk or yum yum and he looks at me blankly. He won’t imitate words that I say. I ask him to bring me a particular toy and he ignores me.

He is sociable in the sense that he loves meeting people and babbling away (has a lot to say in his own language), makes eye contact, smiles, has lots of funny expressions etc. He will hand me toys of his own volition so I think this is an example of what’s called ‘joint attention’. He loves peekaboo. He has clapped a couple of times when asked but now refuses to do that too.

My husband thinks he’s too young for investigations and that we should wait another 2-3 months before seeing the GP.

Has anyone else had a child who didn’t seem to be developing comprehension skills at this stage? Is there anything I can do to help his comprehension? Should I push my husband to have him seen now?

OP posts:
RedC83 · 20/01/2021 14:40

@Landladymews How's your little one getting along now?

Bythemillpond · 20/01/2021 14:59

At 18 months I wouldn’t worry. If he is babbling then he is showing some comprehension skills. He is trying to talk in his own way. I had one who didn’t talk till they were 2 years and 3 months and suddenly just started. My youngest was nearly 3 before anyone other than me understood him.

Alice4417 · 19/07/2024 07:10

@Landladymews how is your son now x

atay27 · 30/04/2025 12:24

How is your LO now please OP?

bravenewworld12 · 01/06/2025 11:45

any update?

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