So I'm in London so we can still visit households. (They live 10 mins down the road?
I have no family here only dh.
At his mums, is his siblings (school age) older siblings (uni age) and mum and dad.
I'm not even OT but we've seen them 3 times since March. (I have heart disease) each time we have seen them.. me, dh and dd (3) have been really sick. We last saw them 2 weeks ago, now dd since 1.5 weeks has been coughing really bad, and we've tested positive for covid 19. I'm also 16 weeks pregnant.
Because my dh works in retail he says he has no grounds to stand on to NOT see his family as it sounds ridiculous, and looks like we are making excuses but his siblings are out all the time, eg. His bro and sis went to Manchester for a house party! And came back, this is multiple times over the past few months! His parents are doing their own thing, going to sports, restaurants etc which is fine, it's their life, but they are pressuring dh for us to come round (obvs not now because we are covid positive but when we've finished "isolating")
They don't take my congenital heart disease serious. We only just found out I'm pregnant as I've actually got the coil in! So obviously I've said I don't want to see them for a while.
But dh is gone off in a puff saying we can't shield from them forever as he will be going back to work so I'm exposed anyway!
Aibu?