Gaslighting

[DonnaQuixotedelaManchester]

Is this gaslighting?

I said something, other person says the didn't hear then said perhaps I thought I said it out loud but didn't?

I clearly said it, I know I said it. They are refuting that I said it and said above (that perhaps I thought I said it).

Isn't that gaslighting? When you try and mess with someone 's perceptions of what they said or not.

Whoever it is, back up everything you do, etc, right down to photos after you've written on the board. You need to ensure you cover your own back.

And find a way to reduce/cut contact if at all possible. Reduce the chances of further abuse, etc.