It’s disingenuous and dishonest to peddle the myth that anyone can command a six figure salary
Everyone has a chance to try, IF that is their goal.
The main point is that so many women are knocked back so soon.
I was told at school (Grammar school - but a long time ago) "be a secretary - it can lead to other things" which is true, but still... "Be a teacher, such a good job for a woman, you get the school holidays".
I was outraged by the sexism of this, even at 14.
Then, so many women drop their careers for p/t jobs when they have kids, and only look at the take-home pay: their v the childcare costs. They don't look at the value of the pension contributions, the long term value of them maintaining training and promotion prospects, so they fall further and further behind their DH/DPs salary until it is a foregone conclusion that she will have the job that she can drop every time a child is sick.
We co-parented equally. Both dropped a day for the first 3 years, considered childcare a shared costs that applied to both our incomes, agreed reciprocal support for being away at conferences etc.
I am NOT a high earner, because of my sector(but I do earn significantly above the national average) But I was ambitious and I am 'notable' and a high achiever in my very badly paid sector. I do my job because I love it, and it has enabled us to buy a house, live debt free , have the amount of holidays that we were quite happy with and have a pension we can live modestly but adequately on.
Why does a thread about high earners always illicit loads of "oh, they are lying" posts, as if women really cannot earn good money? It drives me nuts!