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ifonerememberstoturnonthelight · 11/10/2020 02:26

Right so I rescued our neighbours dog from neglect and sadly after 2 weeks of treatment and love his condition deteriorated and he had a massive stroke so needed putting down it was awful and I felt so shitty about doing it.

My issue is..

Keith had to be put to sleep outside on the grass of the vets because of COVID. So the lovely vet hung the bag of fluid on the washing line outside the vet and Keith was laid underneath it, then the drugs injected to the iv so the vet could distance from us etc. However when it had been confirmed that he had passed away we stood up to go back to the car and it turned out that behind us literally 2 foot away was a family (mum and kids) having a picnic of Burger King on the grass in the rain at 7pm whilst the dad revved the engine of the car.

I get that cars break down and I get that kids need to eat but it was very obvious a dog was being put to sleep at the time. Id just like to ask the vet if they could have given us more privacy or asked them to move? I dnno. Maybe I'm overreacting. But it was the most surreal experience of my life having just said goodbye to a lovely dog to turn around and see a family having a picnic next to us. I mean I nearly stepped on the kid!

OP posts:
Sunnydaysstillhere · 11/10/2020 10:27

Ah op I am so sorry. Followed your original thread... Bet it was the best 2 weeks of his life. We had our dcat pts mid covid. I know by dh's face he lied when he said he held dcat during the procedure... Tough awful bloody times. But families like you describe will always be a thing...
Sorry for your loss.
Concentrate on your grief.. Anger won't help at this stage imo..
Flowers

MintyMabel · 11/10/2020 10:34

What a shitty, pointless comment.

Because you don’t agree with it?

Not everybody falls to bits over something so trivial.

Keepingthingsinteresting · 11/10/2020 10:54

@MintyMabel

What a shitty, pointless comment.

Because you don’t agree with it?

Not everybody falls to bits over something so trivial.

No, because it is shitty, pointless and lacking in empathy. Even if you thought it why say such a mean spirited & unkind think. You & the poster of the original comment clearly have an empathy deficit- let’s hope you never need others to be kind to you.
GetOffYourHighHorse · 11/10/2020 12:06

'Because you don’t agree with it? Not everybody falls to bits over something so trivial'

But MintyMabel having a pet put to sleep isn't trivial. What a staggeringly ridiculous thing to sugget.

Try a bit of kindness and empathy.

Singinghollybob · 11/10/2020 12:13

Youlu didn't see them at all during procedure, until you turned around and they were right behind you? Maybe they weren't taking much notice of their surroundings either and so didn't realise what's going on?

Howlooseisyourgoose · 11/10/2020 12:22

Sounds like they were having a Burger King lunch rather than a picnic? Confused

Was there anywhere else for them to go? Kids do need to eat.

magicstar1 · 11/10/2020 12:43

Wasn’t this posted a couple of weeks ago? The OP said the vets were going to issue a parking fine as it was private property?

magicstar1 · 11/10/2020 12:46

Sorry OP, it was on Keith’s original thread. I hope the vet issued the fine .. such an insensitive thing to do.

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