Can anyone tell me the difference between weed high and drunk?

[Dontknowesnch]

Hi,
My boyfriend went to the pub with friends drinking outdoors.
I picked him up at 10, even though he wanted to stay out longer.

He has come home and he is speaking about prophets, an imaginary football team, and basically riddles.

This doesnt seem his normal drunk. We've had an argument and ive asked if he's been on anything,
He says "yes" then "no" then "yes" then "no",

When he says "yes" i ask "what?" And he says "not sure what it was, could be anything"
Then he says "no" and starts laughing that he never said that and that i'm a psychopath and i was the one who said it.

I'm on the sofa feeling tearful and he's asleep in bed.
He's not one to take drugs but this drunkness seems weird.

And i have never taken drugs,
But kept repeating
"There''s only one in this relationship that takes drugs"

He kept repeating sorry

He kept repeating "there's only one in this relationship who take drugs"
In case there's a misunderstanding

Doesn't sound like weed but more like acid
Does he smell like it?

I dont really know what to smell for?
I'm feeling really upset about all this

Sounds like shrooms (or maybe acid) to me.

I wouldn’t think weed - though mixed with alcohol any drugs are not good. You’d definitely smell weed on him though. Trip type drugs I should imagine, LSD? drinking does not get you talking of imaginary football teams in my - long - experience of drinking!

Fentanyl? Administered in A&E it sparks a surprisingly high interest in sporting teams. My 18yo with a broken arm was utterly convinced he was on some basketball team but was also raving about football and hockey. No idea if street fentanyl is the same but the nurse was rolling her eyes as it’s a common thread.
Either way, you need to keep yourself safe tonight if he’s not quite himself, and then throw the fucker out tomorrow when he’s come down.
That’s not weed.

I went in the bedroom and he was saying how he can play for any football team but the other players are just better than him so he's stuck in a rubbish team and he hopes he can speak to andy robertson

Also swore at me and said i'm making him ill by asking if he's taken drugs when he hasnt

Op just don't engage in any more conversation with him this evening. It's completely pointless.
Put a glass of water next to him and a sick bowl on the floor then go into a different room.

I wont engsge anymore, just upset as this is not the person i love

Try to get some sleep and have a sensible chat with him when he's sober.

@Dontknowesnch

I went in the bedroom and he was saying how he can play for any football team but the other players are just better than him so he's stuck in a rubbish team and he hopes he can speak to andy robertson

He can keep well away from our Robbo, thank you very much!

Is there any possibility that someone has spiked him with something? Having said that, it is magic mushroom season. Doesn't sound off his tits enough to have done acid but mushrooms are a lot milder. Smoking weed alone does not produce this kind of reaction - think about it, people do not get stoned and express the desire to be part of Liverpool's back three.

I just find it strange that when i asked him originally about drugs he laughed and said yes, and then it turned to hin shouting no and that i'm a psychopath and i can go and get him a drug test now and tell everyone outside, and that good footballers dont take drugs,

Hes fast asleep now, really worries about what tomorrow will bring now and i cant sleep, he kept saying how he cant believe i think hes a druggy

Could be anything really, could possibly be a mixture of alcohol and weed, my ex would act weird if he was drunk then smoked weed. Regardless, leave him be, go into another room and forget about him till the morning. No good will come from interacting with him now

Sounds like he's speaking confabulations to me, which can happen on any substance if the brain is triggered, not just psychedelic substances.

I would give him the chance for honesty when he's sobered up but I would certainly have lost a lot of trust.

Is it possible for just alcohol to cause him to say the things he has?

Op please keep yourself safe, is there somewhere you can go if needed tonight?

I suppose tomorrows actions depend on him- is this a 1 off or regular? Even if its a 1off, getting off his face to the point he is aggressive towards you. I think a clear headed convo tomorrow is needed, and then go from there. If you feel hes not taking it serious etc, leave. Yoyre worth more than babysitting a man child

That's my problem, i dont like drugs and i've always said i'd never date someone who takes drugs,
If he was honest tomorrow, we could talk thriugh it but i have a feeling he'll deny it :(

In the car, he was saying how his friends were saying i "was attractive but not super attractice" and how one of our mutual friends hate my voice, and this has also upset me

What are you worried about for tomorrow op? If its the thought of confrontation we are all here and you neednt put up with it. If its him not being too well then he can put up or go to a and e if hes that bad

We've been together a year and half and this is the first time ive seen him like this,
We are currently staying in a local cabin so we're close to home as obviously covid hasnt made going away easily, so im upset he's gone out when we're in this lovely cabin with a hot tub too

It's our last day in the cabin with the hot tub tomorrow so i'm worried that'll be ruined by him being hungover,
I am making tea tomorrow so i bought all the ingredients for the pasta dish tomorrow and i'm worried he's not even going to have the appetite for it,
I'm worried we'll argue again,
I'm worried he'll say that i"m accusing him of being a druggy,
I'm worried that i'm wrong and it is just alcohol and i've created a mountain out of nothing
:(

im upset he's gone out when we're in this lovely cabin with a hot tub too

Aside from the drugs thing, leaving you on your own in a romantic cabin is also really hurtful.

Doesn't sound like weed to me. More like coke or mdma .

Or he's really really drunk and talking crap