We have weekly cleaners who started back at the start of September. The main cleaner usually comes with two helpers. They are nice ladies and do a decent job so all is usually good.
My dilemma is that the main cleaner and one other are regularly posting photos on Facebook of them hugging people and not socially distancing generally.
I am clinically vulnerable (not extremely vulnerable so wasn’t shielding) but am being very careful about all the measures. We live in an area that is not in local lockdown but has significantly rising cases, most local schools have cases.
She is generally a lovely lady, has worked here for 4/5 years and is trustworthy. When we have discussed social distancing generally she always nods along and appears to agree but I know she is not actually doing so (I know the Facebook posts are not old photos).
I am wary of saying anything as on the one occasion I have challenged her on something before years ago (directly to do with cleaning in my house that I had concrete proof of) she actually flatly denied it. I suspect she would flat out deny breaking any rules.
Ok, so I am concerned that she is putting herself but to be honest mostly my and other households at increased risk by her actions. However of course it’s none of my business what she does in her own time! There is no way I can tell her what to do, nor do I want to do it would be a case of me cancelling her and doing without I think. But she is trustworthy and decent generally so it’s a dilemma.
So AIBU to be concerned about extra risk to my house bearing in mind the rising cases and me being clinically vulnerable?
YABU - the risk is minuscule and you should just continue as normal.
YANBU - there is added risk and you should avoid that.
If you vote YANBU please can you tell me what you would do?!