This is me! I hate housework and when I was younger everything was for its look. Now I look and judge how much I would be required to clean before purchasing.
I have popper kitchen cupboards as I dislike extra work wiping down handles. I have a high quality induction stove as I dislike dismantling a gas stove each day to clean. I have continuous flooring where possible so dust can't settle in ridges and a automatic vacuum won't get stuck.
I only have big drawers in my kitchen as they hold so much more than my old cupboards = Less clutter on surfaces and less cleaning. Anything in the house that's put away doesn't need cleaning! Lots and lots of storage is important.
I like the ceramic moulded sinks as they are easy to wipe in the bathroom, do away with any gaps at the end of cupboards they are dust traps.
Make sure your extraction unit has click out filters that fit in the dish washer.
Vertical blinds gather less dust
Click off loo seats can be put in the shower for an easy clean.
Vertical radiators collect less dust in a bathroom.
Vent for tumble drier and I put mine in a handle-less utility cupboard so the lint is contained. My big stream generator iron lives on a pull out flat drawer in the next cupboard and the ironing board flaps down. All neat, quick and no clutter. But it did take some planning with the type of cupboards we bought.
I have panels surrounding my stove vas they are easy to wipe as there is no grout. Looks modern and minimalist too.
Brushed finish on fittings shows less marks.
The other thing to consider is having a hidden powered charging port for a hand held vacuum cleaner upstairs and one downstairs. You really need two.
We have a large kitchen unit with hidden recycling bins and main rubbish bin inside.
I also got my builder to lower my kitchen window to the same height as my worktop so my work surface goes right back. I find this easier to clean than a window sill. It's less cluttered and lets more light in too.
Outside try for finishes that can be easily jetwashed or brushed.
Gone are my days of a traditional cottage. I just want an easy life now!