I have a rental property, as does my DP. I have been unlucky over the years and have dealt with rent arrears, deposit claims, house left in a mess etc etc. I have dealt with everything professionally but have often found the process frustrating and unfair and have voiced this to my DP. I am a member of the NRLA and always make sure I do things by the book which often involves a lot of paperwork and time. He never commented much on the issues I had and didn't offer any help or support.
DP has been a lot more lucky, but when his good tenant left, he had to do a certain amount of work and admin to get a new tenant - you would think this was a major task! He expects me to listen and to understand. He talks about it all like I have no understanding of his situation when I have been through it many times with a lot more complications.
I organised driving lessons, buying cars, taxing and insuring them and spent many hours on this for my son and his oldest daughter. I didn't get any thanks or acknowledgement.
He is now doing the same for his youngest daughter and boy oh boy, is it a drama! Again, he talks to me as if I know nothing about it - despite having been through the same process twice before. The car he bought for youngest daughter has been sat on the drive, untaxed and insured for months because it's such a big task for him. He would never ask me to help but prefers to tell me what a huge effort he is making in sorting it out (depsite the fact, he hasnt actually sorted it out!).
These are just two examples.
I find it incredibly frustrating!