Hi all, the in laws haven’t been taking covid seriously for a while. By in laws I mean mil, her partner and my partners siblings who live at home still.
It’s all parties, pubs, gatherings with no social distancing. Unlikely to be within the rule or 6. One of them went abroad and didn’t do the isolation period. They’ve also always got someone staying in the house - drunk mates crashing, family members from other parts of the country too! Parties at their house.
Now all of this is their choice but aibu to avoid them? We are vulnerable as such but DS has autism and he’s already had a covid test once. Trying to minimise the risk of catching the virus.
I really don’t want to go their house. It’s not very clean either. Can’t imagine they regularly disinfect heavily touched areas after people staying there.
I’m also trying to take precautions so I can spend time with my grandma who’s recently become widowed.
Mil is upset she won’t see the kids for a while but aibu to think if she wants to they need to take it more seriously?!
I’ve told her that maybe she can come over here and see the children but no one else (can’t with rule of 6 anyway)
Do I sound like an ass for wanting to protect my family? I’m not working currently. Partner works but in a low risk job!
Would you do the same?