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AIBU to walk away from this house purchase?

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Quandaries · 04/10/2020 12:21

Will try to keep this short.

Viewed a house and loved it 6 weeks ago. Ticked all the right boxes and was very good value for what it was. Offered asking price and it was accepted. Survey done, solicitor engaged etc so at the stage where it’s cost us some money.
Booking deposit has been paid but is refundable (not in Scotland).

We have a large deposit and mortgage is ready to draw down. We’re not in a chain.

Our solicitor was chasing theirs for contracts.

On Thursday I got a call from their agent to say they’ve allowed another viewing from a very insistent couple who are cash buyers and offered £8k more.

Agent now wants us to reoffer and increase on the new buyers’ offer so we’ll be paying £12k above what was agreed. He insists that the house will go for even more if it goes back on the market and says that houses are being snapped up before they go on the market as more people are working from home and this village is very popular for those with just an occasional commute.

I’ve had a look at Right Move and can’t see any evidence of anything other than price drops in the area. I accept that there may be houses selling before hitting the market and I don’t have this data.

My heart loves the house. It’s in a stunning village and really ticks all the boxes in terms of schools etc.

My head is saying we’re actually in a better position than the cash buyer as we’re 100% ready to go and can sign this week whereas they will need to have survey done etc.

Head is also telling me that if the sellers are going to screw us for £8k (for context, that’s a bit over 1% of the purchase price we had agreed), they’ll be a nightmare to deal with and it’s only a matter of time until they come back to us either with a new offer from the other bidders, or pushing to put it back on the market.

I’m also guessing that house purchases slow down a bit in winter, and it’s an area where more Covid lockdown measures are likely so putting it back on the market may mean there aren’t many viewings.

For additional context, we can afford to increase our offer. I’m just loathe to get into a bidding war due to how the vendor has sprung this on us.

But I love the house.

YABU- up my offer
YANBU- walk away

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harriethoyle · 07/10/2020 19:41

@Justjoshin22 @stillcoughingandlaughing I'm a traditionalist. I only like the mint one

@WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll today is a fast day at my house. Shush!

sapnupuas · 07/10/2020 19:43

@harriethoyle

I was always partial to a Fry's chocolate cream. Haven't seen them for years...
Farm Foods.
SirGawain · 07/10/2020 19:47

OP please let us know if they come groveling back when the (fictitious) NB fails to come through.

Lollypop701 · 07/10/2020 19:47

Can’t believe theyve shut pubs in Scotland! I’ve arranged a Friday lunch just in case we follow completely misses point of thread

StillCoughingandLaughing · 07/10/2020 19:49

I'm old enough to remember the multi-flavoured Fry's chocolate creams Blush - a different flavour every segment Shock

Fry’s Five Centres!! 😀😀 I LOVED those.

Sorry OP - this isn’t buying you a house Grin

Quandaries · 07/10/2020 19:50

I’m upset enough without all the talk of Fry’s Chocolate Creams. Awful things.

Now, a Fry’s Turkish Delight is a very different proposition.

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Quandaries · 07/10/2020 19:54

Sorry OP - this isn’t buying you a house

No, but this thread has cheered me up. Was a bit hesitant about posting this on AIBU in the first place.

You’re a decent pack of vipers Wine

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MyShinyWhiteTeeth · 07/10/2020 19:59

I like this house plus annex plus cottage.

How do you feel about quirky houses?

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/property/4043567-Beautiful-house-with-a-quirk

HavelockVetinari · 07/10/2020 20:00

@Quandaries

I’m upset enough without all the talk of Fry’s Chocolate Creams. Awful things.

Now, a Fry’s Turkish Delight is a very different proposition.

See, I was with you right up until this post. Turkish delight. TURKISH FUCKING DELIGHT. ShockAngry

You're an animal.

RhymesWithOrange · 07/10/2020 20:04

*I’m upset enough without all the talk of Fry’s Chocolate Creams. Awful things.

Now, a Fry’s Turkish Delight is a very different proposition.*

Reported 😡

swampytiggaa · 07/10/2020 20:05

I’ve been reading. Nothing to contribute apart from fry’s chocolate creams at Tesco 🙂

AIBU to walk away from this house purchase?
prettybird · 07/10/2020 20:06

Fry's Turkish Delight Envy

Iloveantiques · 07/10/2020 20:10

Caramac AND Fry's chocolate cream available at Poundland. Also strawberry and mint after eights.

Iloveantiques · 07/10/2020 20:11

Caramac bars and not the nasty buttons!

tiredvommachine · 07/10/2020 20:11

Mmm.. Fry's Turkish Delight. Full of Eastern promise Grin

Lillyhatesjaz · 07/10/2020 20:11

Were there frys chocolate cremes in pineapple for a while or am I just loosing my memory

Lollypop701 · 07/10/2020 20:13

You can keep your chocolate bars... I’m having scampi frys

Justjoshin22 · 07/10/2020 20:18

Turkish delights... pineapple cremes and mint chocolates. Rank rotten. You’ve lost my support 😂😂
Strawberry after eights though? Revalation!!

finished31 · 07/10/2020 20:28

Now, a Fry’s Turkish Delight is a very different proposition*.

I think all this has gone to your head op!

On what planet is a Friggin Turkish Delight ok unless your my mum aged 81

mrsmummy1111 · 07/10/2020 20:29

SHAMELESS PLACEMARKING

Ps FWIW those sellers sound like total tossers

ISpeakJive · 07/10/2020 20:32

Sorry, you didn’t get the house , OP but if it makes you feel any better at all you really, really don’t want a house with marble counter tops shivers
Oh the stains! You can’t put hot things on it, spray with chemicals, it fades eventually, etc You’ve definitely had a lucky escape 😉

prettybird · 07/10/2020 20:35

Granite all the way Grin

sueelleker · 07/10/2020 20:46

*And orange, and strawberry 😁

The orange have been around for years, but strawberry?! 🍓 This is a revelation of epic proportions* I've seen all of them in Poundland.

sueelleker · 07/10/2020 20:49

Also strawberry and mint after eights. Wilko's have g&t After Eights.

NotSorry · 07/10/2020 20:57

I bloody love Fry's turkish delight - especially when it's been in the fridge