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AIBU to walk away from this house purchase?

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Quandaries · 04/10/2020 12:21

Will try to keep this short.

Viewed a house and loved it 6 weeks ago. Ticked all the right boxes and was very good value for what it was. Offered asking price and it was accepted. Survey done, solicitor engaged etc so at the stage where it’s cost us some money.
Booking deposit has been paid but is refundable (not in Scotland).

We have a large deposit and mortgage is ready to draw down. We’re not in a chain.

Our solicitor was chasing theirs for contracts.

On Thursday I got a call from their agent to say they’ve allowed another viewing from a very insistent couple who are cash buyers and offered £8k more.

Agent now wants us to reoffer and increase on the new buyers’ offer so we’ll be paying £12k above what was agreed. He insists that the house will go for even more if it goes back on the market and says that houses are being snapped up before they go on the market as more people are working from home and this village is very popular for those with just an occasional commute.

I’ve had a look at Right Move and can’t see any evidence of anything other than price drops in the area. I accept that there may be houses selling before hitting the market and I don’t have this data.

My heart loves the house. It’s in a stunning village and really ticks all the boxes in terms of schools etc.

My head is saying we’re actually in a better position than the cash buyer as we’re 100% ready to go and can sign this week whereas they will need to have survey done etc.

Head is also telling me that if the sellers are going to screw us for £8k (for context, that’s a bit over 1% of the purchase price we had agreed), they’ll be a nightmare to deal with and it’s only a matter of time until they come back to us either with a new offer from the other bidders, or pushing to put it back on the market.

I’m also guessing that house purchases slow down a bit in winter, and it’s an area where more Covid lockdown measures are likely so putting it back on the market may mean there aren’t many viewings.

For additional context, we can afford to increase our offer. I’m just loathe to get into a bidding war due to how the vendor has sprung this on us.

But I love the house.

YABU- up my offer
YANBU- walk away

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MzHz · 06/10/2020 17:36

Good! At least you have some clarity

If they come back to you then you revert to the original price

VinylDetective · 06/10/2020 17:36

They’re fuckwits. Hope NB backs out too. Please let us know when you find your new house.

TitianaTitsling · 06/10/2020 17:37

Yep Quandries run for those hills!!

GU24Mum · 06/10/2020 17:37

Sorry to hear that but, like you, unsurprised. To be honest, had they accepted the extra money, you're likely always to have thought you'd been played.

Are you taking bets on how likely it is that you get a call in a few days to say that there has been a change in the situation are are you still interested?!

Hope you find something else you like soon.

MzHz · 06/10/2020 17:37

But your agent handled the very persistent buyer didn’t he/she?

This is the time you hold very very fast and don’t blink

TitianaTitsling · 06/10/2020 17:37

But do update us should you hear from EA again!

Dartsplayer · 06/10/2020 17:38

Wow they really are CFs. Well done OP. Now you can just look for something else (although do update us if they get back to you)

RandomMess · 06/10/2020 17:39

What utter time wasters!!!

OnCandyStripeLegs · 06/10/2020 17:39

Oh well. At least you know where you are.

I think the EA is on your side now. They've gone from having a definite commission coming in to uncertainty - they are not going to like that.

Have you booked appointments to view anywhere else?

Wheytaminute · 06/10/2020 17:40

How strange.

SentientAndCognisant · 06/10/2020 17:41

You’ve done he right thing
The is no the one house,no dream house. There are simply available houses that one likes and want to live in

cheesecrack · 06/10/2020 17:44

I bet the EA is furious with the whole thing tbh.

Longwhiskers14 · 06/10/2020 17:44

I think you've dodged a bullet here, OP, as gutting as it is. If they were willing to let someone view weeks after they'd accepted your first offer, what was to stop them doing it again once they'd agreed your increased one?

Skyliner001 · 06/10/2020 17:46

😬🥳

PanamaPattie · 06/10/2020 17:47

They are on MN!

Perro · 06/10/2020 17:49

I bet they’re too busy having a marital row to answer their phones Grin

CrimsonCattery · 06/10/2020 17:49

Twats. Cowardly ones at that.

ithinkiveseenthisfilmbefore · 06/10/2020 17:53

Cowardly, too. Not surprising, really. School gates will be fun going ahead. Wankers.

Quandaries · 06/10/2020 17:54

@cheesecrack

I bet the EA is furious with the whole thing tbh.
He sounded very down. If he’s involved, I don’t know his angle. I just can’t think of a possible scenario where this will result in me giving a higher offer. At this stage, they could offer me the house for £100k off and I’d still run. They’re strange people and I don’t want to live in their house or anywhere near them.

They seemed very normal up until Thursday.

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BitOfFun · 06/10/2020 17:55

Wow. What utter shitheads.

Quandaries · 06/10/2020 17:59

Have you booked appointments to view anywhere else?

No, heart isn’t really in it. Had a brief look on Rightmove and don’t see much of interest so going to lick my wounds for a while and then see where our heads are at that stage.

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Quandaries · 06/10/2020 18:02

@PanamaPattie

They are on MN!
The thought did enter my mind.

Vendors, if you see this, give me a sign.

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SentientAndCognisant · 06/10/2020 18:09

How do we know they’re on MN?have I missed a post?

Quandaries · 06/10/2020 18:11

give me a sign

But not one that says “sale agreed”.

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BertiesLanding · 06/10/2020 18:11

@SentientAndCognisant

How do we know they’re on MN?have I missed a post?
I think it's a guess based on their shenanigans.
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