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Gamer girl (12) - help!

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Friendsoftheearth · 03/10/2020 08:47

I have a 12 year old girl who loves gaming! She really likes driving cars - real ones - the junior lessons, so I think driving games etc she would really enjoy in the winter.

So I am thinking to buy her some kind of gaming things for christmas, but I have NO IDEA where to start. She loves Roblox and that kind of thing too, was massively into Minecraft when she was younger. She likes building things. I was looking at the Nintendo Switch, but that is because everyone else talks about it.

Can anyone recommend the best ones?

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bungaloid · 03/10/2020 11:02

For programming try Scratch (MIT). If she gets the hang of that she can move onto Python. If she really wants to focus on developing games then perhaps have a look at Unity.
For consoles, I'd wait for the next generation in mid November.

MsStillwell · 03/10/2020 16:04

I'm not great for advising on programming/coding for that age but I think it's worth looking in to a Raspberry Pi. It would be a great field for her to get in to in terms of opportunities and there's a great community of female pioneer.

Friendsoftheearth · 05/10/2020 16:10

Thank you all! Amazingly helpful advice on here. Can I check if she can do Scratch on Xbox is this something different? And Python?
Raspberry Pi etc. She is very different to all of us, much more of a natural engineer/innovator in a way I find hard to channel or to know what to do with to be honest... trying to adapt to her and offer her something that suits her, but have no idea where to start!!

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MsStillwell · 05/10/2020 16:33

Are you generally academic in terms of family background?

MahaliaJ · 05/10/2020 16:40

Or she might just enjoy playing Mario Kart!

yetmorecomplaining · 05/10/2020 16:58

Leave python and unity for now til she has more confidence, both are great but unity especially has a v steep learning curve.

Scratch is great to start, as is Kodu - both introduce coding concepts without actually jumping straight into code. Both suitable for making own games and both have good tutorials + decent free online resources

yetmorecomplaining · 05/10/2020 16:59

Scratch, Python, Kodu etc all really for pc

yetmorecomplaining · 05/10/2020 17:00

You don’t need an expensive gaming pc. Even a half decent laptop is enough - plus it’s of far more use than just a console

Janevaljane · 05/10/2020 17:05

My half decent laptop wouldn't run most new pc games. You need a good graphics card.

Hingeandbracket · 05/10/2020 17:07

Can't advise on coding but DD (12) has been given an old Xbox by DSD and is loving Forza - which we bought for £3 in CEX. We don't have steering wheels etc, but we can race each other (2 player).

We are not a gaming household so this happened by accident really.

She also plays minecraft on every device known to man - but you can play 2 player minecraft on xbox.

yetmorecomplaining · 05/10/2020 17:08

Very much depends what games you play and what you’d term ‘half decent’. If you consider the price of console + wheel(s?) + £50-80 a game you’d have a fair amount to spend on a machine that can be used for much more than roblox

MilesToGoBeforeISleep · 05/10/2020 18:56

Scratch is an amazing resource and is completely free online on a laptop or PC. It has its own tutorials and there are endless you tube tutorials too. She needs to get confident in Scratch first I would say before moving to Python!

Swayo · 05/10/2020 19:01

Can I check if she can do Scratch on Xbox is this something different? And Python?
On the pc for those.

MsEllany · 05/10/2020 19:08

Xbox and Forza are the latest and best racing games (someone mentioned Gran Turismo up thread which is good, but I found really hard to play).

I agree on game pass and sounding out friends if you can.

The Need for Speed games are really fun and should be cheap - there is one in particular called Hot Pursuit which is really good.

RozHuntleysStump · 05/10/2020 19:11

At her age I recommend the switch but I would really try and find out what she would actually like. The switch is awesome though and you can take it out. Also Animal Crossing!

Gertie75 · 05/10/2020 19:14

We've got an x box and two Switches and have used the xbox less than 10x, the games are mainly racing or fighting and none of us are into those.
The Nintendo are more family friendly, my two girls love Splatoon 2, Minecraft, Animal Crossing and the Mario series.
Games can be expensive but they always have offers online which include the main titles and are between 50 and 80% off. Or you can buy a physical copy then sell it on Ebay once she's completed it, they fetch great prices.

Could you bring the subject up with your daughter and find out what she likes the idea of without telling or even ask her outright, at that age she won't be expecting Santa to turn up and might really enjoy researching and choosing which console and games she wants.

liaun · 05/10/2020 19:17

Definitely involve her in this decision, she'll be more grateful for that than any surprise element. It's a lot of money to get the wrong one

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