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if you prefer snogs to sex?

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thelastjuliet · 02/10/2020 17:58

Passionate Kissing is one of the best bits of a new relationship
but it often seems to be forgotten later on. I enjoy sex with my bf (this isn't about his skill in bed) but there is something more intimate and romantic in a good snog for me! I think when done really well there is a sensual magic that sex doesn't really have.

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thelastjuliet · 02/10/2020 21:31

@ComeOnGordon
I could go for being thrown against a wall and snogged hard again reminds me of when I was single and clubbing

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thelastjuliet · 02/10/2020 21:31

@YewandOak
whats wrong with tongues?

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VictoriaBun · 02/10/2020 21:33

Been with my oh for 20 years. Haven't snogged in 18

YewandOak · 02/10/2020 21:42

whats wrong with tongues

Just feels intrusive to me,I don't like the feeling of someone else's tongue in my mouth.
Each to their own.

thelastjuliet · 02/10/2020 21:50

@VictoriaBun
do you miss it?

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thelastjuliet · 02/10/2020 21:51

@YewandOak
fair enough

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SEE123 · 02/10/2020 22:56

I'm with you OP. quite literally take your breath away with a good snog. Can always tell from a first kiss whether the rest will be magic. Maybe we're romantics 😂😂😂

thelastjuliet · 02/10/2020 23:20

@SEE123
maybe we are Grin
you're right a really good snog can make me dizzy.

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StormBaby · 02/10/2020 23:22

I couldn’t exist without snogging my DH, it’s out of this world swoons

ComeOnGordon · 03/10/2020 05:22

@thelastjuliet that’s exactly the kind of snog I had in mind. It’s been too long since I had one. Maybe I need to get back out in the dating scene just for some good kisses (but know that I’m deluded and really it’s probably divorced men wanting to send sick pics 😂).

ComeOnGordon · 03/10/2020 05:22

Ha ha not sick pics! Dick pics

CarolVordermansBum · 03/10/2020 07:24

I love kissing and snogging but unfortunately my DP has really bad breath so I'm always avoiding it.

movingonup20 · 03/10/2020 07:37

It's great! Grin

CoalCraft · 03/10/2020 07:57

I don't much like kissing and am quite glad DH and I are over much more than a quick peck - spit grosses me out Grin

Proper, close, loving cuddles are my favourite. My idea of a great night in the bedroom is a cuddle, bit of touching, sex, more cuddling... nice and cosy!

VictoriaBun · 03/10/2020 08:30

@thelastjuliet
Yes - but perhaps not from him !

Clawdy · 03/10/2020 08:44

Looking back on my life, and the various guys, I remember with pleasure most of the kisses, especially the first one in a relationship. The sex - hmm, not so much.

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