I'm with him 4 years. I feel lately the relationship is fizzling out and we've barely seen each other in the last month and don't live together. He says to me tonight if I'd like him to visit me this weekend. I said we'll talk about it tomorrow- really because I need to think things through.
To me it's very much a part time relationship, he spends a lot of time with family and lately I feel like a backup option.
I don't feel this weekend like doing the Saturday night sleepover after dinner - and that's all it is lately - but would rather spend some quality time going for a long walk etc instead. I don't know if I'm being unreasonable?