I work full time, currently WFH. DH is a key worker, part-time (Weds-Fri). Today, I have meetings up until 7pm. We're in the process of moving house so the house is beyond an absolute tip - mess absolutely everywhere. White goods, hoover etc all over at the new house but working from the old house as it has internet - beds are here, no actual furniture in the new house.
Just found out DH has invited FIL to stay tonight. FIL is lovely but old, pretty deaf and a bit of a dinosaur. He thinks I'm a SAHM and expects me to be thin and keep the house clean. I definitely caused disappointment when I didn't give up my successful career when having children. Normally, the house is clean but it's not clean now and I'm certainly not thin!
To make it worse, my purse is at the new house so I couldn't buy anything in for dinner when I found out FIL was coming. Even if I had, we have no oven here to cook it because it's at the new house. So, we'll have to order a takeaway (which is great solution to FIL thinking I'm fat and lazy!!). DH has just finished work and gone to the new house to meet FIL (because for some reason he told FIL to go there even though neither of us are there and left a key under the mat for him - why?!?). And then he's bringing FIL to the house I'm in (the old house), where there's no food (or way to cook it), where I'm still fat and still working, and everything's a mess (that I can't clean because I have no dishwasher, no washing machine, no hoover, not even a broom or dustpan and brush).
AIBU to just run away?
(And, for the record, I really do care about FIL thinking I'm fat and lazy and the house is a mess even if it is out dated and sexist).