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to ditch the bra?

34 replies

WaxOnFeckOff · 30/09/2020 15:09

Been working at home for 6 and a half months, it's pouring with rain today and I thought "fuck it" I'm not going anywhere anyway so have gone the day sans brassiere. I have a tshirt and zipper hoody thing on but still feels a bit decadent...Grin

However there is a bit of me that still thinks that "one has one's standards..." Wink

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Hahaha88 · 30/09/2020 16:13

I am quite happy braless in my pj's all day but if I get dressed it feels weird not to wear a bra but I decided screw it today too (also in a tshirt and hoody) I have very saggy boobs but I can never find a comfortable, proper boned bra. No ones seeing me so I why put on a bra?! Oh the freedom!

ChronicallyCurious · 30/09/2020 16:13

I’m a 32H and never wear a bra unless I absolutely have to. Some times my partner gets shocked and is like “you’re wearing a bra? 😮”. 😂

WaxOnFeckOff · 30/09/2020 16:14

I was going to say that earlier, if other people get distracted by your nipples, that's their issue. I'd probably notice but just think "must be cold, glad I brought a jacket..." :o

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CovidPostingName · 30/09/2020 16:14

At a 32H it's not an option for me! But then mine are perfectly fitted and very comfortable. Panache Jasmine, ftr.

Babysharkdoodoodood · 30/09/2020 16:14

I've just got some stretchy pull on ones from tesco. I'm about 38DD/E and due a left mastectomy in a fo rtnight, so need to be super ~ comfy.

WaxOnFeckOff · 30/09/2020 16:19

I think it's just habit. I don't wear PJs so if i'm lounging about it's a bathrobe, hence needing to be dressed for work, even at home, I have no desire for my bathrobe to gape and give my team or clients an eye full (i am sure they are equally grateful). But clothes just seems to mean automatically putting a bra on.

I think this is a gamechanger for my whole philosophy in life.

I'm thinking some supportive vest top type things, nice soft hoody/cotton top type things and what for the bottom? Not really a leggings or joggy bottom person, will have to have a browse and a think.

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lazylinguist · 30/09/2020 16:19

I've ditched the underwired bras. I used to think they were pretty comfortable, but going braless occasionally during lockdown made me realise how nice it was not to wear them. I ordered a bunch of stretchy, non-wired ones. Cheap, comfortable and non-stabby. I'm fairly large in the boob department and they are plenty supportive enough.

2bazookas · 30/09/2020 16:20

One does indeed have ones standards and mine is to reject the harnessing of breasts.

WaxOnFeckOff · 30/09/2020 16:22

@2bazookas

One does indeed have ones standards and mine is to reject the harnessing of breasts.
Love the username - very apt.
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