Thanks for all the replies. I really thought most people were going to tell me I’m being silly to consider a move, so the replies are really interesting. To answer some questions:
I’ve changed the place names but think a move from Tottenham to Hertfordshire, not somewhere where all the millionaires live but a move to an affordable suburb that is predominantly middle class families.
Is our current area up and coming? The it depends how you class it. Property prices definitely have a significant way to go before they reach their peak, but it’s London so the crime and busyness of the area will remain, and I suspect it will always be slightly on the rougher side despite any ongoing gentrification. There’s a big difference between up and coming London and wanting to live a quiet life in the suburbs, which I quite fancy at this stage in life.
We live in a high knife crime area. I don’t really view my children at risk of getting mixed up in that, as a previous poster said, it’s mainly gangs involved in that. But I would really like them to feel safe and a sense of freedom moving around their local area as teens. Lots of the parents I know here with teenagers say it’s not easy and most teens I ask don’t exactly have glowing reviews of what it’s like to live and go to school here.
We can’t move to a smaller house in a better area, we’re in a small mid terrace and currently have 2 children sharing a room. To downsize now would mean 3 DC sharing long term. I have 4 DC.
DC1 will be doing secondary applications Oct 2021 so we have a year to move or decide to stay.
Renting our current house out doesn’t work financially. The rent money would not cover the mortgage plus what we need to rent in the new area. We wouldn’t be able to afford that. Plus there are very few family sized properties available to rent in the new area, most people buy.
It’s around 100k added to our mortgage for a similar sized house in the new area. £150k for a slightly bigger house (what we’d like, ideally), and potentially £200k for a slightly bigger house that needs improvements (factoring in any work we might want to do in the next decade without eating into equity or adding again to the mortgage).
The increased mortgage repayments would be affordable for us in terms of salaries, but definitely wouldn’t leave us with as much left over at the end of the month as we are accustomed to at the moment, and would become more of a stretch if interest rates rise.
We are mid 30s, looking at a 30 year mortgage, so worst case scenario if we aren’t in a position to overpay at any point, and if we don’t decide to take more money out for new kitchens or any home improvements the whole time we live there, we would be looking at paying off the mortgage by 65.
We are looking at this next move being our long term home for the next 20 / 30 years, but it is a good point that we can always decide to downsize or move area again once the children have finished school / left home, which would give us more options.
Interested to know why being mortgage free at 50 might be a poor financial decision?