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Better to explain or not?

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LavenderSatin · 24/09/2020 13:11

If a colleague thinks you dropped the ball on something, but there is a very good reason / explanation that exonerates you, but the explanation is complicated and likely to look like you’re just making an excuse, and the consequences of the ball-dropping are not significant and are easily rectified, is it better to give the explanation to show that it wasn’t your fault, or better just to accept the judgment and get on with fixing it since it’s not really a big deal?

In case it’s relevant - the colleague is someone I rarely work with, so they don’t know that I am usually reliable and not a ball-dropper. They aren’t my line manager or superior or even part of the same department. They are more qualified than me, but we work in totally different areas save for this one project where we keep in touch due to a shared client.

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Gazelda · 24/09/2020 13:44

I'd fix the situation. Then give colleague a call to catch up on progress of the project and drop into conversation "BTW, you possibly think I dropped the ball with the x situation. Just to let you know there were things going on behind the scenes that I won't bore you with. I'll fill you in when all this is over and we can have a glass of wine together. Suffice to say it's all sorted and you know I can be relied on to complete the project competently. "

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