I guess the clue is in “volunteering”; you don’t do it to get something but I’m feeling peeved off.
I volunteer for a charity that supports animals, mainly dogs. I adopted a rescue dog and wanted to help support so began volunteering. The charity is part of a company, the main company is profit making and expensive, very “high brow”. I’m not naive that charities can be used for tax avoidance, but I care for the animals.
The team is made up of mostly paid, salaried full-time staff (London wage too) and relies on volunteers for a vital process that without them (including me) the charity would cease to exist. I am the longest standing volunteer and there are 3 of us in total (they need more but the work requires a skill which some don’t have and a lot of time, so you have to do it longer term). I volunteer a couple of hours a week despite having a very demanding job. I do it at antisocial hours and isn’t an easy thing to do (trying not to out myself sorry!)
Basically, I’ve never received anything. The charity has a lot of branded clothing etc to raise money, I don’t think sending me one would hurt. However I never thought about it until recently.. I have the head of the charity on Instagram (she is the person I have to speak to most to do my work) it was her birthday last month and she received a gift - the item that the Company that runs the charity specialises in. I’ve never even received a happy birthday.
Also, I enquired with the company to pay for what they sell for an important event. I mentioned I was a volunteer with the charity arm and wasn’t even acknowledged. I did think they might give a small discount...this brand is used by celebrities and influencers and they are regularly gifted things, so I suppose it hurt.
I am wrong to expect some form of gesture / acknowledgement?