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Grandparents exempt from local lockdown rules

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Deyes999 · 21/09/2020 16:31

I just read a story on Sky news that Grandparents or childcare providers both formal and informal can continue to do so in areas that are in lockdown. Surely that is putting some of the most vulnerable people at risk in already high risk areas? I know it's many people's lifelines for going to work etc and I totally understand that part but I just think after all the stories in the last few months saying about how we should be protecting vulnerable or older relatives it's odd to now put grandparents in this position.

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movingonup20 · 22/09/2020 14:25

My mother isn't 70 yet and her grandkids are adults, grandparents aren't all old! She's caring for my dd currently (sn) because she needs stability and they back onto fields excellent for social distancing

Sertchgi123 · 22/09/2020 16:16

@LindaEllen

I just think the whole thing is an absolute joke now. I'm currently in a discussion on Facebook about whether you can only have 2 households meet in a house in the UK right now, or whether it's any number so long as a max of 6 people. I'm saying the latter, lots of people think the former. I cannot actually find anywhere on the gov website where it says either - but that makes me believe there cannot be a 2 household limit, and if it only says 6 people without then specifying 'from two households', this bit must have changed.

The point is, people are arguing about what the rules are, because nobody bloody knows!

And it might SEEM like a good idea saying that each family can consider the risk in their own situation, but the problem is you never know exactly who is going to suffer with covid and how badly. I think at the moment, more people are being affected by lack of social contact than covid itself, which can seem rather like an abstract danger unless you've actually had it, or had family who've had it. So I think that given the choice right now, many, many grandparents would choose to take care of their grandchildren.

That is them deciding the risks to take - but if everyone took that choice, surely we're running the risk of the NHS being overwhelmed?

And if that's NOT a risk, then why the bloody hell do we still have all these restrictions?

Covid is either dangerous or it's not. We need to either protect the elderly, or we don't. But seriously. They need to make their minds up one way or the other!

You make some very valid points. I don't think there's any doubt about the risks and the danger. I've been to a local clinic today and everyone is wearing PPE. You have to wear a mask and there's hand gel before and after every door, with signs up telling you to use it.

Whilst I'm not a fan of the current government, they appear to be between a rock and a hard place.

Personally, I think we should all try our very best to protect ourselves, which in turn will help to protect the NHS workers.

Quartz2208 · 22/09/2020 16:25

@LindaEllen the four nations of UK have very different rules

England is 6 - doesnt specify how many households

www.gov.uk/government/publications/coronavirus-covid-19-meeting-with-others-safely-social-distancing/coronavirus-covid-19-meeting-with-others-safely-social-distancing

LindaEllen · 22/09/2020 20:40

[quote Quartz2208]@LindaEllen the four nations of UK have very different rules

England is 6 - doesnt specify how many households

www.gov.uk/government/publications/coronavirus-covid-19-meeting-with-others-safely-social-distancing/coronavirus-covid-19-meeting-with-others-safely-social-distancing[/quote]
Thanks - that's what I thought, but to be perfectly honestly I couldn't outright say to the other people they were wrong because things change so quickly and I haven't actually watched the news today! For all I know things could be back to normal and I'm sitting at home drinking hot chocolate completely unaware! Haha.

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