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To ask how much your boobs sag out of a bra?

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pumpkinpiepls · 20/09/2020 22:49

Mine have always been pretty saggy pre-motherhood - very far apart and not particularly pretty. They aren't particularly big either, 32C...

Now nipples point forward (just about) but are still right at the bottom of my breasts.

Can't bare to look at them and feel like no man would want me with these!

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SweetPetrichor · 21/09/2020 12:05

Mine aren’t too bad but I’ve not had kids so they haven’t really served their function! I’m 32H and they do sag but that’s to be expected. I don’t really care. I only wear a bra when I have to so I’m used to them being as nature intended!

Zippetydoodahzippetyay · 21/09/2020 12:19

I hate my boobs. 14 G currently while breastfeeding my 3rd baby. Have been pregnant and/or breastfeeding since July 2014 so I know they will absolutely wrecked by the time I finish. They feel physically uncomfortable without a bra. I can't comfortably run or jump. I'd say they probably come down to my elbows when not wearing a bra. The women in my family all have big boobs. Even when I was a size 10 I had a D cup. I will almost certainly look at a reduction and lift when I finish breastfeeding.

rorosemary · 21/09/2020 12:32

I've always had big boobs and failed tge pencil test since I was 13. Men have always loved my big boobs, they've never cared that they were sagging. I've heard some pretty shit stuff about my looks in the past, but only women have been nasty about non-perky boobs.

Hibbetyhob · 21/09/2020 12:32

I look back at photos of them in my 20s & pre-kids now and sigh. They basically used to naturally hold themselves close to my neck...nowadays I have to be careful when I roll over if lying down that I don’t trap one underneath me.

But they’ve fed 2 children, I’ve gained & lost weight etc and I guess it’s just normal.

I just try not to look at them.

mylittlesandwich · 21/09/2020 12:36

I have always disliked my boobs and as a teen I used to wear 2 bras! I obviously don't do that anymore but I still don't like them. They've always sagged and my nipples are in the wrong place. I always say I'll get them lifted one day but I don't think I will. I'll live with my saggy boobs and avoid the risks of surgery. I'm 27 and have one DC but they've always been like this.

Bloomburger · 21/09/2020 12:36

99% of men will just be utterly thrilled with the chance to touch a pair of boobs regardless of what they look like, that's from my DH by the way.

pumpkinpiepls · 21/09/2020 15:18

Thanks so much everyone, feels so much better to hear we all have the same hang ups and I know we are too harsh on ourselves. Sometimes I feel like women hold ourselves to higher standards and compare ourselves more than men actually do!

Mine have always been like it too, ever since puberty, very far apart and the chest bone sticks out rather odd.. always have issues with strapless bras too!

Does make me feel better to know I'm not alone and also that I'm probably my harshest critic!

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LittleTiger007 · 21/09/2020 15:33

Genuinely I think men just like boobs. You are overthinking it and should be grateful you have them. If a man rejects you because of them then he really isn’t worthy of you.

AriesTheRam · 21/09/2020 15:48

I've been on quite a journey with mine.30A up until i was 28 then got them enlarged to a 30d.When pregnant with ds 6 years ago went up a size.They looked droopy afterwards and I hated them so changed my implants in January going up to a 30f.Theyre definitely not perfect by any stretch but look so much better than they did.

Pesimistic · 21/09/2020 16:34

I liked my breasts better after I had my first baby, they looked womanly rather than teenaged, but as the years go by they are starting too loose their edge, I'm pregnant now and they dont look good to me they look full at the bottom but not so much at the top, breast feeding breasts will look great but I'm scared from what they will be like after I've finished breast feeding

ClementineWoolysocks · 21/09/2020 16:40

I've always had really small boobs, at 51 they're still in exactly the same place as they've always been. I can get away with being braless and still look perky.

Fairyliz · 21/09/2020 16:56

Honest if you have got to the stage that a man is seeing your naked breasts in my experience they are too excited to notice if they are a bit droopy.
Too interested in getting their hands on them.

PaquitaVariation · 21/09/2020 17:07

If blokes have got to the point where they can see your boobs, they’re not going to give two hoots what they look like.

TorkTorkBam · 21/09/2020 17:18

My saggy 32F boobs are rarely out of a bra. I have bras I like wearing for sex. They are not structurally sound nor comfortable enough to wear all day but there is enough uplift and shaping to make me comfortable while offering little resistance to jiggling and the fabric is so feeble it has little effect on touch sensation. Works for me. DH likes them too (that might learned through the association with me being up for dtd).

cyclingmad · 21/09/2020 20:59

Since puberty I've never had perky boons never ever and I've floated idea of surgery then I just think what's the point apparently only last 10yrs etc. And I'd rather not put something fake inside me.

As long wearing a bra makes them look good that'll do Grin

saturdaynightgin · 21/09/2020 21:40

I have something called tubular breasts, so even tho I’m only a small B, my boobs have been saggy since they developed. I can’t find a style of bra that fits me properly because of it. DP doesn’t seem to mind too much

waterlego · 21/09/2020 22:46

I like the idea of sex bras TorkTork! Might have to adopt that strategy myself- think it would improve my confidence.

goldopals · 21/09/2020 23:04

One is super perky and one is super droopy which is what happens when you breastfeed from one boob. My husband doesn't care and I don't either at the moment

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