I understand that the urge to reproduce is very strong, but the future looks incredibly bleak (I'm not talking about just covid, but also climate change). I fear for the future and what sort of quality of life people will have, considering Automation/competition over jobs, climate change issues (food/water shortages, extreme weather). Honestly, how can you think that everything will be fine and work itself out, or do you just not think about it? Children today will face unimagineable suffering in the next 20-30 years, how can you justify it to them? I wanted children desperately but decided not to because of the above, plus genetic factors.
People mention the war and how people kept having kids, but the threats we face have never been faced before and are multifaceted. Is existing to suffer better than not existing at all?
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Tobythecat · 20/09/2020 19:21
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Hardbackwriter ·
20/09/2020 20:28
@DilloDaf
Why did people in the 17th century have kids when the life expectancy was 35, and disease was rife?
Because 17c women didn't have the luxury of choosing whether or not to have children.
Some posters seem to think reliable contraception has existed for hundreds of years
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Because 17c women didn't have the luxury of choosing whether or not to have children.
Some posters seem to think reliable contraception has existed for hundreds of years
.Contraception as reliable as we have now hasn't always existed but the concept of contraception always has. The average American woman had 7 children in 1800 but 2.5 in 1900 - do you really think that people weren't doing anything to influence that? Contraception and abortion were both known about and practised in the 1700s, not with modern levels of efficacy (and with a lot more danger, for the abortions) but people have always known that there are things you can do to make having a baby much less likely.
SomewhereEast ·
20/09/2020 20:29
@OhCaptain
I remember 20 years ago people saying by 2020 the world would be over
Have you been awake for this year?
Joking aside, isn't it something like 100 corporations who produce 71% of emissions? Those are the changes we need to focus on. Not people reproducing.
Have you been awake for this year?
Joking aside, isn't it something like 100 corporations who produce 71% of emissions? Those are the changes we need to focus on. Not people reproducing.
Oohhh and just in case anyone mentions Covid, I'm going to put my history PhD hat on and say that Covid isn't even in the top ten thousand Bad Things Which Have Happened To Humanity.
Brot64 ·
20/09/2020 20:33
In 20 or 30 years I hope to still be around suffering along with them in the dystopian future 😚
this has really made me laugh out loud and I needed a laugh. Thank you.
Wakemeupwhenthisisover ·
20/09/2020 20:36
@OhCaptain
I remember 20 years ago people saying by 2020 the world would be over
Have you been awake for this year?
Joking aside, isn't it something like 100 corporations who produce 71% of emissions? Those are the changes we need to focus on. Not people reproducing.
Have you been awake for this year?
Joking aside, isn't it something like 100 corporations who produce 71% of emissions? Those are the changes we need to focus on. Not people reproducing.
I’ve been awake, the world very much isn’t over. Life is tough for many but I'm still having fun where I can! My children and thriving and happy and bringing me a lot of joy.
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