DH has rota week off work - he is a posty. Because RM are changing his hours (long frustrating story) and our financial losses from strike, last Friday and all this week instead of working my 5 hours a day I am working 8.5 hours a day, to build up some leiu time and overtime to cover the affore mentioned problems.
Since DD was born 4 years ago I hav always let him have lie-ins at weekends and never expected him to get up in the night as he has the physical job.
However this week I am already finding hard, yet he refused to get out of bed on the weekend and implied I was making up my tiredness. Normally DD and DS (10mn) are good sleepers save the odd night here and there, but this week DS has an awful cough and I have been up for at least 2 hours last night, and simialr on previous nights.
He is now grumpy with me for demanding he collects me from work rather than me getting a bus home (20 minutes to get home instead of 45), but I am so tired I could weep, and I have no colour in my cheeks - a frightening sight this morning.
And it's not like I rest when I get home, becaus he's not used to have DC's all day and hands them straight over and expects me to cook dinner.
He thinks I am joking when I ask him for this week only and only for just 1 night to get up if the DC's wake. he keeps going on about our so called 'agreement'.
We have a lot going on at the moment with DH family and an impending bereavement (another thread)so I dont want this to explode but I feel like smothering him with his own pillow when he lies there at night and I am in and out of bed like a yoyo.
But am now at work again and am going to bed down under my desk - I wish.
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LowFat · 09/10/2007 08:19
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