I am still shocked at my response tbh! I went to fill up with fuel after school today, and paid for a car wash ticket. As is my usual habit I then drove to carwash bit, only to find that someone had parked their MPV bang up against the doors to the cw, on the yellow hatched bit and swanned off to get a ticket. Well, I couldn't get past, so I waited. And waited. Four !!! customers exited the shop before finally Madam emerges, blows kisses at her mate, and wanders back to her car. Seeing me waiting she smiled and said 'oh, sorry' rather airily. To my utter, utter astonishment (because when I am not in court I am both shy and a wimp) I heard myself saying 'well so you should be, for being so bloody rude!' At this point she froze, and asked me to repeat it. So I said that I thought it was a really bad mannered thing to do, incredibly inconsiderate and plain rude. So she then said' well fine, you go first, then' and shot through the car wash at speed, and drove off! I felt guilty and found myself making excuses for her like she was maybe in a hurry etc, but I had crashing period pain and a 12 yr old dd at home sick on the sofa, and it still wouldn't occur to me to behave like she did. I am just so fed up with people being inconsiderate and selfish, but was I wrong to tell her? I didn't raise my voice at all btw as I had dd2 in the car.