to feel pee'd off with my p's sis getting the hump with me?

[alittleone2]

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Sounds like a right cheeky cow! I would let your DP listern to the message and tell him to sort it out!

That is so beyond ridiculous. You do realise that don't you?

YANBU! Tell your partner that she needs some money - but it is up to him to send it to her. Then forget about it.

All families have their 'mares! We've got a BIL who is back living at home at 55, sponging off the MIL and is violent/obnoxious to the point that we cannot go to MIL's house to visit and DH has to make sneaky arrangements to collect MIL at pre-arranged pickups so as to avoid BIL.

god sake

what a selfish person

it is not your responsibility to bail her out, or take 3 - 4 hours out of your day to help her

Why on earth should you give her money? I think you should send har a letter saying you have hadenough of this behaviour and you are no longer going to be avaliable for her to sponge off.

Nope too ludicrous.

Blimey! Tell her to get a job!!!

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Do NOT have a cigarette 3 weeks is loads and very well done, it is not worth wasting all that effort on her.

I wish you were my sister in law. She needs to start looking after herself now.

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Sorry but i'd be inclined to ring back and remind her it tha t it is her turn for christmas this year .

Please, please, please take the sign that says 'doormat' off your forehead. She is, and has been for some time, using you. If you let her carry on you can't blame her for acting up afterall, you helped her last time...

and please don't have a ciggie, you are doing so well

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wine good, ciggies bad!

Good on you!!

I burned my doormat sign that seemed oly viivle to my father + PIL and are now soo much the better for it

that was supposed to be 'only visible'

why doesn't your dp hear any of this from her?

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why doesn't he hear it from YOU then?

i can't believe she charges you when you have hers for free!!