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AIBU re school response to Y8s sharing nude picture?

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4dogs · 14/09/2020 08:34

Last Tuesday evening my 12 yr old dd told me that a group of Y8 children at her school are in a whatsapp chat group, she’d been invited into the chat and was worried because some of the children were sharing a nude picture of another y8 boy and discussing it (comments about penis size so sounds like a full frontal pic). They were sharing the pic via dm so thankfully she didn’t see it. From what she could gather the boy in question had sent a nude selfie to another boy who had then shared it with other children. She didn’t know who the original boy was or if he knew what was happening but didn’t think he was in the chat group.

I explained to her that she was right to tell me and told her I would inform the school. I emailed the school and next day the office emailed to say it had been forwarded to the head and lead safeguarding person. That teacher spoke to dd and said because they didn’t know who the nude student was they couldn’t do anything.

I had expected them to email Y8 parents to warn them what’s been happening and maybe talk to Y8 students about the risks, appropriateness (and legality) of sharing such material. AIBU to have expected the school to have done something to raise awareness?

Should I do anything else?

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Witchend · 15/09/2020 12:33

In dc's school this happened in one of their years-although I believe the picture was from the back, so not as bad.
All children on the WhatsApp group were put into internal exclusion for the day and the police came to talk to them about how serious it was.

4dogs · 15/09/2020 15:54

I’m shocked by how slack the school have been tbh. Their lack of concern made me doubt my own judgement which is why I posted on here to get some more opinions.

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Ceilingfan · 15/09/2020 16:26

Well done for reporting this, and thank you.

I hope it is being taken more seriously now.

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