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Ami being unreasonable

33 replies

Ashbash2003 · 14/09/2020 02:03

Hey this is the first time I’ve ever used this but feeling really low so need some advice, I gave birth to a baby boy January this year was totally unplanned as I thought I was going through the menopause at 41, but I’m literally at my wits ends with my husband he thinks coz he works as a chef (long hours) it’s all basically down to me I’ve gone back to work but only once a week at mo doing a 10 hour shift, I’m just so sick of getting told it’s my responsibility to put clothes away etc and yesterday when football was on and our son had poo he’s like it’s up his back you need to put him in a baby grow I said why can’t you he’s like I’m watching football, so I feed bath change look after him in general all the time but coz I’ve been out like twice since he’s been born I get that chucked in my face, I say he’s a narcissistic but he says I am, I’m sorry to rant on just don’t know where else to turn

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Ashbash2003 · 15/09/2020 00:34

@iklboo

At 41 i would have thought you would have planned having a baby a bit better so YABU.

I must have missed the bit where the OP said it was an immaculate conception.

And I’m guessing you’re perfect and never fucked up in you’re life!!!!
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Ashbash2003 · 15/09/2020 02:15

As for you if you haven’t got anything nice to say than piss off I came on for support not you’re negative shit

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Ponoka7 · 15/09/2020 03:18

Talk to your Mum. Work out the practical side of leaving. Then give it one last shot. Sit him down and give ultimatums.

The one thing I will say is in a year your baby will be so much easier. When you do go through the menopause, you don't want someone who isn't supportive and caring.

Monty27 · 15/09/2020 04:26

@MomToTwoBabas

At 41 i would have thought you would have planned having a baby a bit better so YABU.
Seriously? 🙄
iklboo · 15/09/2020 17:49

@Ashbash2003 - I'm supporting you with my post! I was having a go at MomToTwoBabas who was being a shit to you. Saying it's in NO WAY any of her business when you had your babies.

Shoxfordian · 15/09/2020 18:09

Call your mum
He's a knob

FunTimes2020 · 15/09/2020 18:15

@Blacknosugarplease

MomToTwoBabas

I’d expect a mom of two babas to be less of an arsehole

Well said!
Ashbash2003 · 15/09/2020 21:40

Thankyou

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