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HippyHappygal · 12/09/2020 22:16

Not me but a family member. Just made redundant from a 13 year job.
Has 1 chronic health condition, diagnosed with another during lockdown,has 3 hospital appointments in the coming months and will need weekly blood tests for at least the next 3 months. How on earth are they meant to find employment in those circumstances? Employers have to be understanding but it certainly will not be easy.

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pawsies · 12/09/2020 22:49

Weekend and evening work might suit?

Sorry grasping at straws. Hope they find something.

HippyHappygal · 12/09/2020 23:03

I was just looking at bank staff roles as well for them. Might be OK for a short while.
I really feel for them. Bad enough as it is finding work at the minute, let alone with 2 chronic health conditions.

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ZarasHouse · 12/09/2020 23:06

Either part time work, as you suggested agency work, Evenings, weekends.

I mean ultimately a lot of people in those circumstances get signed off sick and claim benefits for a short time because working becomes untenable

SheepandCow · 12/09/2020 23:09

This is where working from home is the solution. Lots of jobs don't need to be 9-5, and wfh can be adapted around health issues and hospital appointments.

Long-term it's not good for society for us all to permanently WFH full-time, but it can be the best option for the disabled and people with chronic health problems.

HippyHappygal · 13/09/2020 11:40

Yes, people have said that employers have to be supportive of health needs but who is going to employ someone who is out the workplace at least once a month as they have to attend an appointment or go for a weekly blood test due to the meds they are on?

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Florencex · 13/09/2020 11:43

She could get the blood test appointment either first thing, last thing, lunch time and then make up any lost time.

mrsbyers · 13/09/2020 18:57

Doctors offer extended appointment hours now so could be sorted without interruption to a normal day. I have two chronic health conditions , declared when I joined the civil service and have been fully supported

VinylDetective · 13/09/2020 19:00

As pp have said, wfh is their friend. Plenty of employers now don’t care what hours people work as long as the work’s done. Presenteeism is on its way out.

Livelovebehappy · 13/09/2020 19:37

I think a lot of big companies are understanding of situations like this. I work in a bank and we have just employed someone who has to have 2 days off a week to have kidney dialysis. She obviously only gets paid for the days she works, but I think if your friend can afford to go part time, maybe get a job which means they can have a day off each week, unpaid, to have their tests and hospital visits.

AdoptedBumpkin · 13/09/2020 20:05

It is going to be more difficult. I hope they find something.

HippyHappygal · 13/09/2020 21:37

She gets her blood tests at the hospital, not doctors.
Her job is also people facing and can't be done from home. I guess it's either bank staff work or part time for a while until things hopefully settle.

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