name changed for this as if linked to my previous posts will be very very outing to those that know me IRL.
I know this should be in pregnancy but AIBU is the board I frequent and its posters have become familiar to me so I suppose I kind of respect your opinions based on what I've seen on other posts.
I was referred for sterilisation pre lock down however with all that is occurring re covid etc obviously this hasn't happened.
currently 7/8 weeks PG, I have booked a termination for next week. I have other children one of whom has very severe and complex additional needs that will last his whole life (I need to be around to look after him). I also have some complex medical history if my own including several DVT and PE (pulmonary embolism) I very nearly died after my last child just 14 months ago. all linked to pregnancy.
I know I need to do this to ensure that I am around for my ds and other children although there is a chance I would be fine, but I just feel so conflicted and guilty, I am definitely pro choice and if asked my opinion on my situation for a friend I think I would advise they go through with it but I just don't know!
Please help me you load of VIPERS!!
What would you do?
I guess YABU keep the baby all will be fine
YANBU do what you can to ensure you are around to look after your current children particularly DS