DS is 13. We live close to his school and (not in the UK) he and his friends are allowed out of school over lunch and if they have a free period after. Today, he has a 3 hour gap and is currently here with two friends, one boy one girl. Post lunch, they are watching Netflix / gaming in his bedroom. They’ve closed the door and shut the curtains but I can hear them larking about.
Should I be telling him to leave the door open a bit? Just to keep an eye on them? What’s the norm?
He’s my first teen, and I grew up in the arse end of nowhere and rarely had visitors, never mind boys!!
YABU: leave them to it, too young to worry about this!
YANBU: keep the door open, you need to keep an eye on them.
And if IABU at what age does this become an issue?