To ask why people are so put off by their H or boyfriends...

[LivingMyBestLifeNOT]

I m now single and am intrigued to know. I have issues from my ex, watching porn but I was always up for it.
However the more people I talk to havent had it for many months with their partners. I find this strange... why?!

Mistygreenandblue thank you that’s exactly what I meant

Stress and tiredness reduce people's sex drive.
Since March, everyone's life has been dramatically reshaped by an unprecedented pandemic, with constant changes, but no end in sight.

It's hardly surprising that some people aren't too active in the bedroom right now.

I think it’s been proven that women become sexually bored of their partners more quickly than men do and this makes sense. I’m not always excited by dh tbh but can have sex with him just as a scratching the itch kind of thing without him being aware of that. Lots of people don’t separate the act from the person therefore bored of the guy = doesn’t want sex. Several friends now have said thought they didn’t have much of a sex drive, Met a new man and were shocked.