Not sure if I'm being unreasonable to feel upset.
I've been working hard and doing long hours to advance my career, alongside studying for a degree.
I was born in a different country and have a limited relationship with my family, came here working on minimum wage and worked towards what I really wanted to do (I don't mean this in a bad way - many minimum wage jobs are not just important but also can be fulfilling for some people, I just mean it was a long way for me in my circumstances).
I found out I passed a very crucial part of my course with a distinction, last year I did quite poorly in this area. This now puts me one module away from graduating. I got results today and told DH I would love to get a nice takeaway from my favourite restaurant to celebrate tomorrow.
He said "congrats, great job but we were going to eat x meal tomorrow". X meal is mostly frozen with some veggies bought fresh that can wait or we could eat for lunch and still have a nice takeaway. We ended up getting into a fight over me feeling like he's prioritising a 40p vegetable that can be eaten anytime and being practical over letting me enjoy a moment I was really happy for, and then the fight escalated. AIBU?