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I've just told my friend straight ...aibu ?

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simplybed · 10/09/2020 17:09

My good friend has been with a guy for two years.
He's not a good bloke I can tell.
She is blind to him,tells me she doesn't like certain things he does but never tells him.
I found him on tinder and POF told her and he told her "I only joined to see if you were on,I love you that much,you can do better and I knew it.
(She bought it)
Then she caught genital warts (he told her he caught them from a previous one night stand ) I think he cheated.
Then two weeks ago she thought she was pregnant and told him.
He told her,"if you are you would have to have an abortion or we would be over,i wouldn't be a part of it"
She took a test and it was negative..he then changed his tune and said "I wouldn't walk away,I couldn't I love you that much"

Anyway she spent all weekend saying it was disgusting and she couldn't look at him.
This morning changed her profile pic to her and him and commented "the best man in the world"

She rang me and I said "don't talk to me about him anymore,he's a waster and your going to get hurt,you don't listen to my advice"

Aibu ?

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BoringBarrington · 10/09/2020 17:22

No. But be prepared to lose the friendship.

ShakerCan · 10/09/2020 17:27

I did same with a 20 year friendship. Told her I couldn’t be in the same room as her knobhead or else I would tell him what a dick he was and let anyone there listen to all the shit he’d done to her. Said I was sorry but she was worth more than that and until she saw how shite he was I couldn’t be trusted anywhere near him or even speak to her about him.

In the end she wised up and dumped him so we were lucky. But it took a while of awkwardness between us. I just couldn’t condone it any longer. To not speak out was to condone his behaviour towards her and I reached my limit.

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