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feeling so anxious about back to work to boss I cant stand

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spanielmum3 · 09/09/2020 09:47

due to go back to work next week, and I'm just so stressed. I cant stand my boss, its not just that, she has hurt me by crass comments on a number of occasions, and since being in lockdown its been so much less stressful as I only have minimal contact with her and no chatting, just work stuff. The office is back on a part time basis and she has rostered me to be in at the same time as her all the time. Mostly it will be just me and her. I'm just dreading it so much. I don't even know how to behave around her any more. She makes these 'funny' comments all the time, that are meant to be funny, but are usually putting someone down, or giving out about something or someone, or poking fun. I'm trying to gear myself up for it, trying to get strong in my mind but I'm not sleeping for the worry of it. Also she has no fear of covid at all - she even said she wished all her 'team' could catch it to get it over with and back to work. I'm 10 years older than her, and I know people who have died, and friends who are still not right after having it. She thinks she had it back in February and said it was 'nothing'. Anyway, just looking for some advice how to keep myself strong, and not let myself get upset or affected by her. how to cope with her. She's also someone who moans about her workload but doesn't delegate. For instance this morning she was sending emails out at 6.40am. Emails that are actually my job!!! We were waiting for data to upload so we could send them out. She will moan now that she is so busy.

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spanielmum3 · 09/09/2020 17:06

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