STBXH has started a relationship with someone who lives in Caerphilly. We are talking a new relationship (about a month). He is planning to still go & visit her despite Caerphilly being placed in lock down.
We are still living in the same house while trying to sell. Split so far has been very amicable & I was pleased that he had met someone.
I asked him not to see her while they are on additional lockdown measures. He said he doesn’t agree with the lockdown so isn’t going to listen. I told him that he was putting me & DC at risk and he just shrugged his shoulders.
I suggested that he stay with her during this period if he can’t stay away but he won’t as it’s too early in the relationship (he has slept over there on a number of occasions so not too early from that POV).
I don’t think IABU by asking him to follow government guidelines. Appeals to his better nature are falling on deaf ears and he is thinking with his privates. I’m not one of those people massively nervous about Covid but won’t do anything that puts the DC in potential danger or others (we have friends & family who we didn’t see all through main lockdown due to their health issues & I will now have to avoid in case he brings the virus in to my home).
I know any of us could pick It up anywhere but surely going to a high risk area just for a shag is too much of a risk.
Any ideas on how I handle this?