@MummytoCSJH
If you need the (mostly reliable) monthly income then holiday let. I'm not sure why you did the whole 'one thinks and the other thinks' when you then went on to make it clear you disagree with one side
Yes, what with the “one of us thinks” followed by “I don’t see...”
So, you want to do the holiday let.
You sound like the pair of you are just tossing ideas around and haven’t costed anything properly.
Do you know what average annual returns from even basic tracker portfolios has been for the last 50 years? If not, you can’t even have this conversation.
£110K+ just to make a property rentable sounds like a lot of money.
There is so much more to consider than just rate of return.
One thing is liquidity.
If you have plenty of savings anyway, then sure - tie it up. If this is all your safety net, what happens if you get sick / lose your job? Do you have to sell the holiday let that’s on your property to get a larger injection of cash? How would that feel?
Tbh, I wouldn’t give you an opinion on who’s right, until I saw figures AND understood your full financial picture.
As to the WWYD?
Understand annual investment growth / income.
Investigate all options (e.g. if one or both of your pay HRT then £110K drip fed according to your income into a pension would give you a massive immediate return of 40%!)
Get actual quotations for the let preparation work.
Draw up a business plan of what rental rate you can expect, what your void periods would be, running costs, tax, likely capital gains - and CGT.
From your post, it all sounds a bit pie in the sky at the moment. For that reason alone I’m with your husband on the stock market.
Do you have space to put in a shepherd’s hut or similar, to test both the market and your comfort level with being rental owners?