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How to deal with always wanting another baby

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RPL19517 · 08/09/2020 10:28

I have 2 DC, 5 years and 20 months old. I adore being a mum and have been broody since the age of about 12. Blush I would love more kids, I grew up as one of 6 and would like at least another 1 or 2. I am now 28 and have been left as a lone parent. How do I get rid of the constant broodiness and accept that this may be it for me? :(

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BabyLlamaZen · 08/09/2020 10:30

I don't know op but following.

Hope you're OK BTW.

OverTheRubicon · 08/09/2020 10:34

You're very young! Hard to tell what the future might bring. One thing that is great about having 2 is that you are able to meet so many more of their needs, for your time and financially.
I've just found myself a lone parent of 3 and while I would never unwish a child, it is SO hard to meet needs, and it isn't like when we were growing up - the expectations and standards are a lot higher both for the kids themselves and of parents, and it doesn't let up so much as they grow.

Like you I am always broody but have come to realise that what I want is another baby, but not necessarily another child - and that the needs of the kids I have come first, and right now they're better off with each other right now.

MyCatHatesEverybody · 08/09/2020 10:39

It's interesting that your title refers to wanting another baby, not wanting another child. Focus on the DC you do have.

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