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AIBU to have a birthday party for my to-be-8 ds?

12 replies

BedofRoses19 · 07/09/2020 11:14

So my ds asked for a birthday party with all his classmates. It's next month. But I'm not certain of the covid restrictions as at now and what can I plan for too as a lot of places are still closed. I would really appreciate for any advice or suggestion. Thanks.

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30under · 07/09/2020 18:50

Eek, it's really not advised. Can he choose a few favourites?

lilfoxfur · 07/09/2020 20:18

My ds is 10 next month. I'm having a tiny tea party with just 3 of his friends. He's happy with that, it's better than nothing

FudgeBrownie2019 · 07/09/2020 20:20

DS2's best friend had a party in our local park a week ago, it was lovely and everyone managed to maintain a little social distancing whilst still celebrating. He only invited a few DC but it still felt quite special.

Onceuponatimethen · 07/09/2020 20:24

I’m not letting dd have a party

FrankieFrankFrank · 07/09/2020 20:25

presumably his class are all in a bubble together and spend all day everyday in the same room at school?! Then I would assume it would be ok if you had just them and no other friends or siblings etc

blackteaplease · 07/09/2020 20:26

Ds is 8 next week. We are having 3 school friends for a play in our local woods and a picnic. Whole class is too risky and against the rules.

MutteringDarkly · 07/09/2020 20:37

I'm doing an outdoor one soon, for just two friends from the class bubble. We're planning to have a campfire, so we can toast stuff, and do various outdoorsy things. Have also got quite a big shade-sail that we'll put up in case of rain. It's going to be challenging to keep them all busy outdoors when it may not be very brilliant weather, but I think it's our best option.

DisgruntledGuineaPig · 07/09/2020 20:45

Genuine question- why would a whole class party on a Saturday be more dangerous than the whole class being together monday - Friday?

I get it could be against the rules, but surely its no more dangerous than being at school together in the week?

Sweetpea84 · 07/09/2020 20:50

My daughter turns 9 soon and I’m taking a few of her class bubble friends to go ape.

84wood · 07/09/2020 20:55

I’m planning a class party next month for 20-25 but only from the class bubble and with 3 adults from 2 households No extra children allowed. Entertainer will be 2m away. Food/drinks/party bags all done in advance. I’ve taken advice and it’s Covid secure and inline with govt policy. Hope that helps.

BedofRoses19 · 09/09/2020 10:30

Thank you all for your insights. I was getting close to organising and booking entertainer and al. And this morning, breaking news! No social gatherings of more than 6? He an in-year pupil. So he hasn't quite made best buddies.

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84wood · 09/09/2020 10:57

We are checking out as children are in the bubble but think it likely we will pull. Also with another month to go who knows what will happen.

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