Bit of a long one so here goes. One of my friends who I was close to, so much so back when she got engaged at the start of the year implied I would be bridesmaid etc. Anyway over lockdown she started to act really off with me, I was working full time and she was on furlough. I didn’t think anything of it at first until I tried to arrange to meet up and she was busy, or cancelled last min. Then she didn’t bother with my son’s birthday. Then came the bridesmaid issue- I have had a really tough year after going through quite a trauma. I wasn’t asked to be bridesmaid and I heard through mutual friends it’s because she feels I have too much going on with what I am going through and it is all about her wedding after all. She has also done the same thing to another friend and seems to have replaced us with new friends. I am really really hurt by her. I supported her through crap points in her life, yet she has totally cut off our friendship during lockdown. I don’t know wether I should text her to let her know how upset I am by her and ask her what I have done to deserve such horrible treatment or just let her go as she is not the person I thought she was. Or am I being unreasonable in even getting upset about it all.