Hi all, 1st time post, I'm nervous about asking abiu, but I think maybe I am. My sister is throwing her friend a baby shower as none of her friends family 'have bothered to' my problem is, my sisters do these type of things for their friends but never for me, I'm currently expecting, on my last pregnancy my sisters did similar things, showed me how they'd made hampers, bought beautiful gifts for a 'friend' and would ask my opinion on what i thought of them i got the hint that these were for me but they were being sneaky to surprise me...but none were for me, I didn't receive any gifts for baby at all, now they've shown me this lovely shower they're throwing for another friend just makes me feel really sad and miserable, I'm not a person who likes a lot a fuss (I get embarrased receiving a birthday card) but I feel worse than embarrassed right now. I feel quite hurt but also feel selfish I don't think I even want a baby shower, this just makes me feel a bit worthless that they do it for a friend who's family hasn't bothered but don't do it for their own sister and we are close, we speak see each other daily. I feel guilty because generally I am not materialistic, dont ask or want or anything, but this has quite upset me, am i being unreasonable to feel this way or is it just pregnancy hormones? xx