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saiditbetterthanme · 04/09/2020 09:53

I've name changed for this as don't want to be identified!

I'm currently pregnant with my second, due the end of Sept. I'm a teacher and was due back at work with my collegues yesterday but in July, the school completed a risk assessment which stated that no pregnant staff were allowed on site. When I spoke to the Head, they said that I should not come in. I would only be back for 3 weeks before I went on Mat leave anyway.
Yesterday I sent an email to say that I was free to do anything to help (planning etc- anything to contribute) as I'm technically working from home and in the meantime I would continue to work on my professional development. I've had no response, I know it's only been a day but I feel that it was there decision to keep me off, they should at least check in with me? I am grateful that they are effectively giving me extra mat leave but I've been off since March and just need a bit of direction. I've been offered no guidance for what I should be doing suring this extra time off, either.
I do feel it was an opportunity to get me out of the way. There is some history in the fact that I had a terrible time returning to work after my first DC. I always try my best but I just seemed to get it wrong even after specially asking what they want and following all their strategies.
I am also part time and asked to return full time but they've said no, however, my mat cover was offered full time. I just don't get it.
It may be time for me to move schools but the anxiety is really getting to me.

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CitizenFame · 04/09/2020 10:35

I'm not sure where the anxiety is coming from. They have been back for one day. I'm sure there's more pressing issues to attend to than responding to your email. Just continue to work on your PD. If you're considering moving schools use the extra time to start looking around for job opportunities.

imissthesouth · 04/09/2020 10:38

I think it's just anxiety getting to you, give them a few days to settle in then they'll reply to your emails.

UpperLowercaseSymbolNumber · 04/09/2020 10:40

It has only been one day. The first day back is always going to be crazy for heads but this year doubly so. So whilst I understand that you’re feeling overlooked I really don’t think there’s anything personal or to worry about in this. Because there are 99 problems for them to be dealing with and whilst you may be under utilised your are at least safe at home.

I’m unclear if you are primary or secondary but if secondary perhaps speak to your head of subject to see how you can help.

Florencex · 04/09/2020 10:41

They have told you not to come in, I would take that to mean they effectively consider you on leave now and are not expecting you to do anything? I also think that they have more pressing things to deal with having just reopened school.

melj1213 · 04/09/2020 10:46

YABU- you emailed yesterday, on the first day back, so give them a decent chance to get back to you. The first few days of a new term are notoriously the busiest, even before COVID, so they will be prioritising urgently matters and you are not top priority.

With all staff on site probably for the first time since March and all the covid ingormation they will have to cover, plus all the usual first day back training/meetings and organization stuff they will have had higher priorities than responding to you at home.

VodselForDinner · 04/09/2020 10:47

They’ve been back for one day. They’re probably, you know, trying to figure all this shit out for a few hundred children so you’re not top priority.

mrsbyers · 04/09/2020 14:17

Yep you’re being a bit precious - they will have a massive job on their hands to get up and running with the new restrictions etc so leave it a few days

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