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to persuade DP to go out tonight?

31 replies

CoralFish · 02/09/2020 15:14

He's supposed to be heading to a friend's for poker night.

I have been sneezing constantly for the past two days. I think it's an allergy thing but I don't usually hayfever or anything this so it's a bit weird.

Today I have additional symptoms - itchy eyes, scratchy throat and an itchy/swollen feeling tongue. I still think it's allergies but it could be a cold. No cough. temperature, or other symptoms of any kind. I lost my sense of smell and taste back in March (presumably Covid) and it hasn't fully returned.

DP thinks I am 'ill' and he therefore shouldn't go. NHS symptom checker says it's 'unlikely' I have Covid. I am fairly sure I don't have Covid but obviously I don't know this for certain.

OP posts:
Pukkatea · 02/09/2020 16:39

You don't have any of the common covid symptoms and you have several symptoms absolutely not associated with covid, such as sneezing.

Have people forgotten that other illnesses exist?

fifteenisthemagicnumber · 02/09/2020 16:41

This isn't to the OP, but to others on here saying she / her partner should get a test. The PHE/NHS/.GOV info is very clear that you should get a test if you have any of the three main symptoms. If you don't, you would need to lie to get a test.

That is really not hard to understand, is it?

SchrodingersImmigrant · 02/09/2020 16:43

I wouldn't worry. That sounds nothing like covid. If anything it sounds like an exemplary allergy. You may have it stronger because your immunity may be bit messed up after March.

Cheeseandwin5 · 02/09/2020 17:03

Neither of you two are wrong.
I do think though that you shouldn't force him out.
You have told him what you think, now with that information he can decide what the best thing is to do.

lyralalala · 02/09/2020 17:06

If he doesn’t think he should go then why are you even getting involved? He’s an adult so if he wants to be extra cautious then surely that’s up to him?

SleepingStandingUp · 02/09/2020 17:07

Op you sound like me when I have allergies. I have them often enough to know, so would send him. However could he can then, explain what's up with you and see what they say?

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