I'm a fairly laid back, go with the flow person and tend to appreciate the good things in my life (did this before 'mindfulness' became an industry!)
I work hard and try to be kind to others (and encourage DC to do the same)
I've never subscribed to a 5 / 10 year plan approach to life as I find circumstances change and it's fine to adapt and modify plans as things roll along.
Recently there seems to be an increase in constant 'challenges', fitness, diet etc and a drive to actively keep a record of what went well / gratitude journals etc. I think a lot of this has been related to a change in team structure / personnel at work. I'm finding it quite irritating and an unnecessary complication but don't know whether it's reasonable to voice this at work or whether my attitude will be frowned upon.
The goal setting seems to have been laid out as the correct approach to achieving success and I'm itching to present an alternative viewpoint to the team. AIBU?