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Really fed up!

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Anon31a · 02/09/2020 09:13

I’m just really fed up with everything. Little one starting nursery as I’m back in work (starting with 2 days a week initially) but partner and my mum keep making me feel guilty that family should be taking care of him I.e. MIL. Again this morning they’ve been at it. My mum keeps saying tell her “I t’s just 7 more months till he’s 3 then he’s going nursery!”, Mil is not able to look after him. My mum lives in another country.

Also eldest son going back to school is a nightmare as parking is horrendous so on my days off It’s gonna stressful as I’m going to be rushing them both around trying to find parking and then running into school. There’s very few parking spaces available. On my work days I’m thinking it will be easier as I’ll drop youngest son off to nursery, and then park up in my new workplace which is very close to the school then walk to drop him off and be back in plenty of time For work. DH keeps saying “park in your workplace for days off too” but problem is I don’t want to take advantage Of new job and don’t know how they’ll react when they see me doing this! There’s another reason why parking there will be a problem too.

Please help me get some perspective please.

OP posts:
Florencex · 02/09/2020 09:19

If there is plenty of parking at your work then I am sure there will be no issue you parking there on your non work days. However more likely there is not enough parking to go round? In which case, I think it would be very cheeky to park there and I would certainly expect somebody to be having a word.

I don’t understand your point about child care for the youngest. You say that everyone thinks family should be looking after him, but then you say that MIL cannot and your mum is overseas. 🤷‍♀️

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